Posted on Jul 13th, 2007
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Sol6
Behavior specialist (c) by Sol Spitz
I'm a behavior specialist who specializes with horses, dogs ,and people...what I teach isn't a science, its an art...its more than a style, its more than a technique...and like any art it is what you percieve it to be...
My motto is "where the attitude is, (this is copyrighted, think of your own motto)
the feet will follow" (c) by Sol Spitz
I've gravitated toward animals all my life,as soon as I could follow their motion..
---.motion and the thought that goes with the motion,
---and the emotion of the motion....---
I was very low key about what I did because I grew up in Kentucky,and while everyone has their road map of their life, and for some reason, people in the neighborhood there, as everywhere, feel comfortable with those who are as fucked up as they are, they were bad drunks who wanted other people and animals to be as miserable as they were...what I mean by that is that I first learned about drunken idiotic behavior of which families and animals are put in a position they have to defend their selves against people who want to drag others down to their level of poisonous living...I like certain drinks but everyone knows theres a difference between drinking to catch a buzz, compared to a bad drunk...the neighborhood I grew up in was a trap for a lot of people, ...but not for me...
...so I gravitated toward animals, because they care mostly about surviving...tho they are in our world, they are a captive audience and there is no where for them to go, so they are truly victims of human stupidity...in kentucky starting at about 10 I said something to someone about the spirit of animals, and trees, and rocks, and when someone said "it can't be because its not in the bible", my 10 year old mouth said "well then, fuck the bible", in my southern accent...they ran screaming and from then on for I while I had to ignore them as they called me an anti-christ, and a whitch...which was kind of ironic, except they were serious...so I went subterranian with what was given from birth...
My parents thought I should go to college so they sent me to a place to do some aptitude tests, etc...after countless days and one test after another, they had me and my parents meet for the results...they sent me out of the room, and after some more time they brought me in...the test person set a bell chart and said my I.Q. was in the top two percent of the top two percent, so my test number is somewhere between 180 and 195, I was never told the exact number......the test person just stared at me, and he said I'd either make a great attorney or a great teacher...its funny cause the way he stared and I looked back...and he said to live up to my brilliance, and I said I will..
.I've always had a sense of destiny, all of us do, its how we listen to our rhythyms, and the soul that wants to exist, the soul that insists on being heard.....thats not arrogance, its self-awareness...so to those who don't know the difference --- wake up...when your nap is over...
My mom was one of the last people out of europe,in 1939, she was in 8th grade, and got sent to an intern camp for refugees on cyprus where she lived till she was sent on a boat that was wrecked off the coast of palestine in 1947...if you rent the movie "exodus" my mom was on the boat that got blown up...my dad went overland from austria in 1933, and in 1939 jioned the british army till 1945...in the movie exodus he was part of the group that blew up british headquarters...I was born in israel, when I was four my parents emigrated to Louisville, Kentucky, my dad was tired of war , he was also one of the least prejudiced people I ever knew...Louisville was where my dad got a masters in physics in two years, plus he worked trying to support a family...I loved both of my parents, but they weren't good partners to each other, because they had to deal with survival at such a degree it was hard for them to develop...so I started listening to myself , rather than others...
When I was five I had to learn english...Having to learn a new language, I would observe, and observe some more...i would watch how people, and animals moved, and what motivated them...I learned that what people say and what people do is very often two different things...I'm also an intuitive, tho I don't need to know details, I read energy, and feel...tho some women I've been close with, feel I'm seeing too much...thats why I offer people open relations, I don't care what people do as long as there is integrity, and some people feel they have to tell lies, because they had to lie to their parents,and thru high school , or keep their feelings to their selves...I'm well versed in humanity, and theres more energy spent on lies than actually just being honest...go figure...
I was an indigo child, now I'm an indigo adult, tho what some of the material presented about them is to justify the authors map of the world...is geared toward the authors point of view...which leads me to the subject of "experts"...people only know what they know, and they have a vested interest in holding on to the knowledge, and its hard for them to let in things that they don't know because it doesn't fit their image or road map ...the point is, everyone is as individual as their dna, their fingerprint, their selves, their spirit, their experiences, and circumstances...in the long run we are all connected thru the star dust and the planet, and whatever...but on earth the ego isn't always bad, and sometimes we need moments of judgement to lead us in our lives, such as figuring out what to wear, what to eat, who to sleep with, there are a lot of decisions to be made......a lot of religious and spiritual people want you to give up certain things, such as ego and money but thats mostly because they want "it"...if you don't believe me follow the money, or the sex trail...I don't trust religious, or spitirual people because they only know what they know, they don't know me or you, but they want to feed off of us, they're parasites dressed in spritual garments......besides, you don't need anyone between you and your spirit...they'll only interfere...
I went to college for three years and my majors were political science and psychology, and I planned on being a constitutional attorney...and I learned to play guitar and piano and also studied orchestration......the more I studied the worse my grades got and the more I missed animals, IQ is a funny number that doesn't always share in what people tell us we should be..., so I decided to be a teacher and an advocate for living things, I wanted to work with animals in the same place where music takes us, the sub-concious......so I moved to tucson, arizona to become as complete a horseman as possible, beyond style or images...I never wanted to pretend I was a cowboy, or jumper, or a dominator of animals...I enjoy the possibilities of partnerships, which is also how I engage with people, not power over, but power with...into the journey of exploring the waters source and the penumbra of light with the dark...and the shadows play...
I'd watch so-called horse experts and trainers saying what to do and some of the stuff really belongs insome other century, in the dust pans of history, along with every religion...the past really is dragging us back because it doesn't know how to move on..some of them were really good and humane, actually a lot of them are...its learning how we want to proceed and finding teachers that are willing to give some direction...
I never was a good trainer, I had a problem with the word, and when people asked what style I teach, I always say I teach beyond style and imagse....so finally around the same time I met some one this past year who was an important catalyst, I had to really think of my images...the part of thinking thats funny is that Im not an analyst, I'm not a scientist, I don't look at things and make assumptions and theories, and then try to fit the facts around it...I scan emotions, and feel, I think and feel in atmospheres, I don't think linear-ly, tho I've had to train myself, because I need to communicate however other people can understand....
So I'm a behavior specialist...a behaviorist is usually some one who went to vet schools, and assign medication...I've never read a paper by them that had anything original, or eye-opening...most of the horse behavior stuff they talk about has been around for years...so thats why I'm opening up to the world...I charge according to what people drive, and if they have a high life style then they can afford what I do...if someone is really interested in learning, or need info, or their animal needs help, I don't charge...what I have is a gift from birth, its thru me but doesn't belong to me...
My greatest teacher was Tom Dorrance, who wrote a book called True Unity...he never charged me, he just wanted me to take it further, and to promote individuality, because ultimately we have the freedom and the responsibility to make decisions, according to ourselves, not other people...tho we do learn from others, sometimes what to do, sometimes what not to do... so learn from as many people as you need to till you become into your own, and then learn more, there is a joy to learning..a curiosity that only you know about,
I've spent the last fifteen years formulating what to teach for the 21st century, and now I've arrived...
I teach patterns of behavior
as a series of events
involving balance...
I also teach people thru the horse, horses can take us to the same place as music...
and I will teach energy work, tho I'll never have a certification program, because either you know it or you don't...besides, where do you think certificates came from, ask your teacher if they have a certificate, ask their teacher, and their teacher, eventually you'll see somewhere there was only knowledge...and each of us can find it according to our circumstances, experiences, and nature...plus, of course, curiosity, desire, and effort...
I also work with dogs, there are some trainers that think dogs and horses are too different, but they're limiting in their selves, and then they pass their limitations on to others, because we all learn by habits...and what leads up to the habit...when you understand the nature involved, not what we "think" should be their nature then its easier to read patterns of behavior, without pre-concieved notions...
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